I admit to be perplexed. Why would anyone who admits to, and was part of. the great betrayal... .believe for one moment, that their wishes would be something that I would bow to and hasten to perform? Really..you place greater significance on yourself then I would ever presume to assume for myself.
Just in case my readers are wondering what the heck I am talking about...the former fiance's new other half has written me for what I believe is the 3rd time,( in her condescending tone, ) for me to stop blogging about my past life, and leave it alone. Last time I checked, I was not a part of Her family, nor a friend. If it needs to be clarified for the umpteenth time, stop reading my blog if you do not like what I write about, it is really that simple.
I wish google had a way to hide my blogs from them, without excluding the others that read it, but it is not there, and they choose many different points of entry. I had to close one blog site already due to their viewing and complaining because he was subscribed to it. . I won't do it again. Whatever power you believe you have over me little kimmie, is a self induced fantasy. I don't care what you want, it really is sad that you think your views will change my perspective. There is still the freedom of the press, and the people that wrote that a long time ago, had a great deal more going for them than you do.
Do you know how I censure? I simply do not look for, nor read what I disagree with. That means, I don't go looking for anything that you or he writes.You should try that, it is a proven and well tuned method of not reading the disagreeable. Please do not email nor comment on my blogs anymore. Your views are not welcome nor appreciated. Whatever your life is currently is your business, I am not inviting you into mine simply because I write what I am feeling. I will not apologize for still having pain...that is something that I have to deal with alone. Being dictated to by someone who played a large part in my receiving said pain keeps that ball rolling, and I think you know it. And I think HE does as well.
I cannot control your 'clicking' on a link, nor setting one up to use to follow this blog. You make that choice.
And so does he.
I will repeat what I believe is the truth...he gains power and sympathy by claiming his ex's are out to get him. Other than my blogging, there has been nothing done to support this claim. He is trying very hard to gain and reinforce control over your feelings. I know, I have been there in his campaign against Diann. "Crazy ex" seems to be his only defense for his continued path of betrayal. You ( and I) have to wonder how it is possible that the man who chose you, also chose two former lovers and now makes claims that both were unstable. Will he say the same about you one day...if he follows his pattern, yes he will.
I can see someone making a mistake once..but twice? And claim the same defense for both?
If you cannot see the pattern, you are sadly mistaken. HE makes the choices for himself, no one else.
And if He needs to move on, he will use it again. You are the next female in his life to be brainwashed..congrats.
I suspect that one day you will look back and do the "smack hand to head and DOH! move."
If you think you have found a forever man to share your life with, you are mistaken.
For him, there is no forever..he is always looking for the next one, and that will Not change because he says it's not true to you, that you are the one.( how very familiar) I hope you have a back up plan, I did not.
k
By the way...I am finished accepting or responding to one of your diatribes. If he winds you up again to send another email it will have been a waste of time. Just as the last one was. Ron...controlling you to get me to conform and bow to his wishes..wow..how twisted is that?
Spam, spam, spam.
And you relaying his messages to me? Never going to happen again. Not on this side anyway. He failed to be what he claimed to represent. Almost in entirety he is false.
Just in case my readers are wondering what the heck I am talking about...the former fiance's new other half has written me for what I believe is the 3rd time,( in her condescending tone, ) for me to stop blogging about my past life, and leave it alone. Last time I checked, I was not a part of Her family, nor a friend. If it needs to be clarified for the umpteenth time, stop reading my blog if you do not like what I write about, it is really that simple.
I wish google had a way to hide my blogs from them, without excluding the others that read it, but it is not there, and they choose many different points of entry. I had to close one blog site already due to their viewing and complaining because he was subscribed to it. . I won't do it again. Whatever power you believe you have over me little kimmie, is a self induced fantasy. I don't care what you want, it really is sad that you think your views will change my perspective. There is still the freedom of the press, and the people that wrote that a long time ago, had a great deal more going for them than you do.
Do you know how I censure? I simply do not look for, nor read what I disagree with. That means, I don't go looking for anything that you or he writes.You should try that, it is a proven and well tuned method of not reading the disagreeable. Please do not email nor comment on my blogs anymore. Your views are not welcome nor appreciated. Whatever your life is currently is your business, I am not inviting you into mine simply because I write what I am feeling. I will not apologize for still having pain...that is something that I have to deal with alone. Being dictated to by someone who played a large part in my receiving said pain keeps that ball rolling, and I think you know it. And I think HE does as well.
I cannot control your 'clicking' on a link, nor setting one up to use to follow this blog. You make that choice.
And so does he.
I will repeat what I believe is the truth...he gains power and sympathy by claiming his ex's are out to get him. Other than my blogging, there has been nothing done to support this claim. He is trying very hard to gain and reinforce control over your feelings. I know, I have been there in his campaign against Diann. "Crazy ex" seems to be his only defense for his continued path of betrayal. You ( and I) have to wonder how it is possible that the man who chose you, also chose two former lovers and now makes claims that both were unstable. Will he say the same about you one day...if he follows his pattern, yes he will.
I can see someone making a mistake once..but twice? And claim the same defense for both?
If you cannot see the pattern, you are sadly mistaken. HE makes the choices for himself, no one else.
And if He needs to move on, he will use it again. You are the next female in his life to be brainwashed..congrats.
I suspect that one day you will look back and do the "smack hand to head and DOH! move."
If you think you have found a forever man to share your life with, you are mistaken.
For him, there is no forever..he is always looking for the next one, and that will Not change because he says it's not true to you, that you are the one.( how very familiar) I hope you have a back up plan, I did not.
k
By the way...I am finished accepting or responding to one of your diatribes. If he winds you up again to send another email it will have been a waste of time. Just as the last one was. Ron...controlling you to get me to conform and bow to his wishes..wow..how twisted is that?
Spam, spam, spam.
And you relaying his messages to me? Never going to happen again. Not on this side anyway. He failed to be what he claimed to represent. Almost in entirety he is false.
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