If I chose to remain at times bitter, again my business. If I chose to vent..my business.
If I want to be sarcastic or silly it's my right. Freedom of Speech, including Freedom of the Press, look it up. It's quite easy to censure simply by not visiting any of my blogs.
If I wish to write truths that are uncomfortable to you because they paint a clear picture of what happened in my life..too..damn..bad. If you chose to blind yourself to what could be true simply because it might happen to you, ( and you don't want to know) then I refer back to the "not too bright" remark I made a long time ago. Selected to not ask questions, just defend..you clearly only see one side of the story that was 9 years in the making and no concept to what I feel or felt at all. Great you have love..sorry honey so did I.
And the whole motherhood thing you keep tossing around like it deserves some sort of award or sainthood? Get real. It does Not necessarily make You a nice person because you can give birth.
Human physiology..reproductive organs..an egg and sperm..that made you a mother. It does not make you better than someone who could not.
Stay out..it's simple enough that you should understand.
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Well written. Your blog, your truths, your choice what to write in it. If someone doesn't like what you write, they always have the option of not reading it.
Hugs, Mel
I am not going to play into someone else's need for drama. The instructions were simple, stay away if you don't like what is written here. I posted your first comment for fairness. That is as fair as I see the need to be. I have not even bothered to read your second comment. (Delete-delete.) Sorry, work night, and I have better things to do. So do you. After all..both of you have told me to get my own life..pay attention to yours, and not mine. This blog is for myself and my friends and family. That means not you...
Oh and, should You feel the need to express yourself, your feelings, vent, etc. I suggest starting your own blog. I can promise you I won't read it, ever.
Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "Simply...stay out":
The whole motherhood thing. Sure a sperm and an egg is all it takes for most but in truth that is not what it takes to be a mom. A mom is there for her kids when they are up at 3 am puking or coughing or have a belly ache. A mom is there to clean their dirty faces at the bus stop before school every morning. She's there to tell them the truth if they like it or not. She loves them no matter what, no matter how many times they screw up. NO matter if they are her own flesh and blood. One doesn't have to give birth to a child to be a mom. (HELLO) Loving a child often more than the child loves his or herself.
Sometimes it means fighting with them because they just need to get it. OR grounding them from everything because they are screwing up. Being a Parent to a child doesn't have to come from some biological stand point. It doesn't have to come with a sperm and an egg. Sadly you got so hung up on that. Yeah, I get it... Life didn't give you that opportunity no matter how badly you may have wanted it. But life did offer you the chance to be a mom. A chance to love unconditionally no matter how badly she screwed up, or how badly she might have pissed you off. The thing is she loved you. There is nothing greater in the world than a child's love. NOTHING. No nothing can beat that feeling. That chance was given to you over and over and over again. You may have missed the diapers and bottles stage and maybe the crawling and walking stage but every girl.. no matter what age she is still needs her mom. And I get that she didn't come to you till she was in her teens but you can't tell me that she still didn't need a mom in her life at that point?
Think about it... As for me staying out.. I still enjoy a good car wreck and as i recall I was invited to come watch this one happen. *laughs* So I'll just sit back with my popcorn and enjoy the show.
the babyho.
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Posted by Anonymous to Simply A Life at October 28, 2011 3:23 PM
I was not going to post that, but I did to show why someone was mentioned. No further remarks or comments will be posted. This is the End of this argument. You said your piece. And I still did not read it.
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